Lubrication Problems
What are the physical causes of lack of female vaginal lubrication? Why do some women have dry pussy, insufficiently wet pussy?
Physical causes of the vagina not getting wet enough may be:
Shortage of the hormone estrogen, for example by early removal of the ovaries.
Neurological disorders e.g a heart attack, multiple sclerosis, anomalies of the nerves or the spinal cord.
Certain types of cancer and their treatment.
Certain medication.
Fatigue.
Menopause.
Pregnancy.
Getting older.
The doctor, gynaecologist or urologist can detect these physical causes.

What are the psychological causes of insufficient female vaginal wetness?
Psychological causes of the vagina not getting wet enough are very common. The love play often doesn't happen as desired. The woman may think that she doesn't get the opportunity to get aroused because her partner comes too fast or she longs for more intimacy while making love. It can also be that the woman doesn't get aroused by stimulation of the vagina, but only of the clitoris. Pain from making love without enough lubrication may limit the ability to get wet at a the next love play. This can even cause chronic pain while making love. Relational problems may also play a role. Communication problems, problems of power and lack of confidence are examples of this. Experiences of incest or other unpleasant sexual experiences may play a role.

How can problems with lubrication of the vagina, insufficiently moist pussy, be treated?
Depending on the cause, problems with the lubrication of the vagina can be treated, e.g whit lubricants or saliva. When there is a lack of certain hormones, these can be administered. Specific forms of therapy are also possible, like couple therapy, masturbation training or making the person aware of the negative thoughts that play a role while making love and influence sexuality. It is important to talk with the partner about the problem.
If you don't want to go to a sexologist yet, try to find solutions together. It sometimes helps if you pay more attention to each other by going out for dinner, giving each other a massage without having to make love, going to the sauna or telling each other what you like while making love.